After experiencing the recent Cebu earthquake while living alone in Iloilo, (I posted this vid on my FB) I realized a few very real things about what to do (and what not to do) during earthquakes or any type of disaster. I really wanted to share this and hope that someone will find it helpful!
- Standing near a reinforced doorway (I’ve read that the beams around doors can help absorb shock, but only if it’s a solid frame and it’s the only safe spot nearby).
When the shaking finally stopped and the building alarms went off, I knew I had to evacuate. I grabbed my go-bag, phone, and wallet, unplugged the washing machine (as I just started loading some laundry), turned off my work desk switch, threw on a robe, and headed for the stairs.
When we finally reached the ground floor, residents and workers from BPO centers around gathered at the evacuation area. Data was down :( , so we could only use our phones for calls or SMS. We stayed there for >30 minutes, and when the building admin finally decided it was safe to allow us back to the building, I went back to my unit just long enough to grab my charger and headed to a nearby café to charge my phone and get a super late dinner. (Spoiler: there were tremors again the next night, so I worked from the cafe again as my nerves were not ready for new set of panic!)
• Always know where your:
• Pack smart – prep a solo-friendly emergency kit
• Stay connected – save your barangay’s hotline
• Keep calm – because again, once you understand how things work, it’s easier to act fast instead of panicking
The Night Everything Shook
On the evening of September 30, I was in my small kitchen when the power suddenly went out. Normally, the back-up power in the building would switch on right away, but this time, it didn’t. I froze. It was pitch black, and I had no idea where my phone was.
When the emergency power finally turned on, I saw my phone on my work desk (thankfully, just a few steps away as I live in a studio-type unit) and immediately grabbed it so I can use the flashlight just in case the power goes out again. That’s when I realized the room was swaying wildly!
Since my unit is situated over 18 meters above the ground, the movement felt like being on a ship in the middle of a storm. Everything was unsteady! This is why participating on earthquake drills is so important! As humans, our initial instinct is to run, but that’s actually a no-no during earthquakes. The safest thing to do is to stay where you are and protect yourself by:
- Getting under a sturdy table, orWhen the emergency power finally turned on, I saw my phone on my work desk (thankfully, just a few steps away as I live in a studio-type unit) and immediately grabbed it so I can use the flashlight just in case the power goes out again. That’s when I realized the room was swaying wildly!
Since my unit is situated over 18 meters above the ground, the movement felt like being on a ship in the middle of a storm. Everything was unsteady! This is why participating on earthquake drills is so important! As humans, our initial instinct is to run, but that’s actually a no-no during earthquakes. The safest thing to do is to stay where you are and protect yourself by:
- Standing near a reinforced doorway (I’ve read that the beams around doors can help absorb shock, but only if it’s a solid frame and it’s the only safe spot nearby).
When the shaking finally stopped and the building alarms went off, I knew I had to evacuate. I grabbed my go-bag, phone, and wallet, unplugged the washing machine (as I just started loading some laundry), turned off my work desk switch, threw on a robe, and headed for the stairs.
And let me tell you—going down multiple flights of stairs with shaky knees is a feat!
When we finally reached the ground floor, residents and workers from BPO centers around gathered at the evacuation area. Data was down :( , so we could only use our phones for calls or SMS. We stayed there for >30 minutes, and when the building admin finally decided it was safe to allow us back to the building, I went back to my unit just long enough to grab my charger and headed to a nearby café to charge my phone and get a super late dinner. (Spoiler: there were tremors again the next night, so I worked from the cafe again as my nerves were not ready for new set of panic!)
Lessons Learned: Earthquake Preparedness When You Live Alone in a Condo
That night made me realize how easily panic overrides logic. Some neighbors weren't even able bring their phones; others left their doors wide open. And honestly, I don’t blame them, fear takes over in moments like that.
I also met people who didn't know where the fire exit was, so I had to show them that it was right behind them (again, :( why earthquake/fire drills are important).
So here are a few earthquake and disaster preparedness tips that I hope can help you stay calm and safe:
So here are a few earthquake and disaster preparedness tips that I hope can help you stay calm and safe:
1. Always Have a Go-Bag (Actually, Two!)
Yes, we’ve all heard this before, but this time, I really understood why it’s important. A go-bag (or emergency kit) is something you hope you’ll never need, but you’ll be thankful to have it when disaster hits.
When I evacuated, my original go-bag had everything: documents, cash, clothes, food, water, and a first aid kit. But I had to cram in more items like my phone, laptop, wallet --and the bag ended up being too heavy to carry comfortably!
That’s why I now keep two go-bags:
Go-Bag #1 – Critical Evacuation Bag
For when you need to leave immediately and can’t think twice:• Drinking water• Ready-to-eat food• First aid kit• Flashlight or emergency light• Power bank & charger• Jacket/windbreaker• Important documents and some cash
Go-Bag #2 – Full Evacuation Bag
For when you’ll need to stay elsewhere overnight or longer:• Set of clothes• Towel• Basic toiletries• Small blanket• Extra food items
If you live alone like me, a lightweight setup is best, but if you have family nearby, it’s also smart to:• Prepare emergency packs for each family member• Agree on a meet-up point in case communication networks go down
2. Keep Your Essentials Accessible
• emergency exits are
• flashlight is kept
• phone, charger and/or power bank (also: always keep charged!)
• main switch is --in case there's a need to turn it off!
• Documents and IDs stored in water/fire-proof kits (like a tin can!)
• Food and/or medicine (with their expiry dates in check!)
• Food and/or medicine (with their expiry dates in check!)
3. Practice Calmness During Drills
It may sound silly, but practicing how you’ll react helps you stay level-headed when disaster strikes. Muscle memory can save your life.
Plan ahead, have a family drill if needed. Know where the safest place in your house is, for any kind of scenario.
4. Don’t Forget Your Mental Safety
After any traumatic event, it’s normal to feel anxious or scared. If you can’t stay or sleep in your unit, it’s okay to stay somewhere you feel safe, like I did at a nearby 24/7 café. Give yourself grace; recovery takes time too.
K's Final Thoughts
Living alone has its perks, but it also means you’re your own first responder. Whether it’s an earthquake, flood, or power outage, preparation gives you confidence when everything else feels uncertain.
So take this as your gentle reminder: pack your go-bag tonight.
And most importantly, keep a close relationship with God. In times of uncertainty, it’s comforting to know you’re never truly alone. Jesus is always with us. ❤️
What’s in your go-bag? Share your tips or solo living disaster stories too!
So take this as your gentle reminder: pack your go-bag tonight.
And most importantly, keep a close relationship with God. In times of uncertainty, it’s comforting to know you’re never truly alone. Jesus is always with us. ❤️
What’s in your go-bag? Share your tips or solo living disaster stories too!
Additional Note:
I recently came across Oplan Manila Yakal document and I think it would be super helpful for Manila-dwellers. It’s the government’s game plan in case the Big One hits Metro Manila. Think of it like a master plan that divides the city into zones so rescue teams, hospitals, and barangays know exactly what to do.For my living alone peeps, it helps you:
• Know where to go – find your assigned evacuation area and learn which sector your city belongs to• Pack smart – prep a solo-friendly emergency kit
• Stay connected – save your barangay’s hotline
• Keep calm – because again, once you understand how things work, it’s easier to act fast instead of panicking
Bottom line: Oplan Yakal helps you not feel totally alone when disaster strikes. You’ll know what to do, where to go, and who’s got your back even if you’re flying solo. Here's the link to the page: CLICK HERE

















